Initiating anal play Many people are adverse to the thought of stimulating the anus in any way and choose to discard it from their sexual practice. However, anal play can feel very pleasurable for both men and women
anal play can feel very pleasurable for both men and women 
as the rim of the anus is full of nerve endings which can be stimulated to create a very pleasurable feeling if they are touched appropriately. It is common to find that people desire to experiment anal play but are often far too embarrassed to initiate anything with their partner. If you have never experienced any anal play with your partner before and you are not sure whether they would be acceptant of it, you should discuss it before carrying out any action. You may be pleasantly surprised to find that they are eager to experiment with you too. Getting started You should 1) Aim to take things slowly to begin with and be as gentle as possible
take things slowly to begin with and be as gentle as possible
. It is extremely important to make sure that you use plenty of lubricant as the anus doesn't produce any natural lubricant of its own. 2) Begin by gently touching each other on and around the anus either with your finger or a vibrator . This will stimulate the nerves and hopefully be enjoyable for both of you. Just remember to relax and keep talking to one another. Inserting small things like your finger into the anus slowly can be pleasurable. Try inserting your finger and moving it in a circular motion just as your lady is approaching climax for an even more sensual orgasm. Anal toys Once you have become more comfortable with anal touching and fingering, you may decide that it is time to introduce a toy. If you search on this site you will find a wide variety of anal sex toys that will most definetly fullfill your needs. Why not consider anal beads , for example? Anal beads come in all different sizes, depending on what you and your partner desire
Anal beads come in all different sizes, depending on what you and your partner desire
. They are usually made of silicone or plastic and have a handle attached for simple retrieval. The ridges on the beads will create a satisfying sensation. In order to use them, just insert the beads slowly into the anus and pull them out at whatever speed is appropriate during intercourse. Alternatively, anal vibrators or butt plugs can also be inserted. Why not purchase a small vibrator to begin with and increase the size as you feel more comfortable. Try pairing anal stimulation along with clitoral stimulation to make things even more exciting. These toys can also be used as a method of foreplay between you and your partner. Don't be worried if you try anal play and fail to find it enjoyable, it doesn't suit everyone. You may enjoy some aspects of it and use them as a sensual technique before or during intercourse. You may decide you would also like to experiment further and try anal sex. Try and listen to each other to avoid your partner feeling any pressure to do anything. Anal sex can be a great little added extra to a healthy sex life so experiment safely and have fun. Looking for anal toys? |
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